Yesterday my calendar read “153 Days until Christmas”. I’m passing this along so that you’re not caught unaware like I used to be. I cannot tell you how many years we went into debt over Christmas spending – and I hate debt. When I look back though, it really came down to being unprepared. Christmas comes at the end of December every year, yet I would be thrown off when it arrived. I had some money saved, but every year it wouldn’t be enough. Then I would scramble and try to exchange money from our November and December budgets to try and make up for what I was spending. After the money ran out, I just started using my credit card. Come March, I was still paying off the balance from December… Continue reading “Christmas in July “
The people you “hook up” with can change your life forever – literally. Now, the term “hook up” can mean different things to different people, but know this: if you don’t choose your friends wisely, the drama can take you out! Continue reading “Life-Changing Decisions: RELATIONSHIPS”
It’s so funny, I started writing this post and the next day I was in Target. All I was buying was a pack of pens, and the cashier (I’m not knocking her – she was just doing her job) asked me if I’d like to save 10% on my purchase. I politely said, “No, Thank You”. But I was thinking to myself, first of all, why do I need for you to run my credit in order to save 59 cents on some pens? (the pack of pens was only $5.99). Secondly, the minute I get really busy and pay the bill a day late (don’t act like you haven’t done it), I get slapped with a $25 late fee. So much for saving money! Let’s take it a step further, though, and pretend the bill was $100. Then I would save $10, right? It’s still not worth it, because the interest rates on store credit cards can be up to 28% – that’s almost $28 – and again, don’t mess around and have even one late pay… Continue reading “Would You Like To Save 10% on Your Purchase?”
- You’re canceling appointments to be with him.
- You’re planning to leave your cousin’s wedding early to meet him someplace.
- You’ve told him all your family’s business – twice.
- You step out of meetings at work (or even church!) to take his call – instead of just sending it to voicemail.
- You let him visit with your kids around.
- You’re buying him gifts, or worse yet – loaning him money.
- You bring him to family or work functions.
- You let him visit and your best friends/close family members don’t have his information. Better safe than sorry.
- You don’t know his middle name.
- You haven’t verified his employment (oh, yes I did!).
Ok, so after you’ve talked a good while, gone out on a few dates, and he’s proven himself to be respectful – not just to you, but to the waitress, the lady at the drive thru, AND his mother – he may be worth it. AFTER you see he has purpose in his life, he may be worth it. AFTER he’s proven that he makes his money legally (don’t let me find out you both got pulled over and you didn’t know…), he may be worth it. AFTER you’ve seen that your religious beliefs are in alignment, he may be worth it. AFTER he’s met your other basic qualifications of a good man, THEN he may be worth your time, energy, and maybe a little extra effort. YOU are worth taking the time to find out.
Okay, so we’re all working on goals and we’re always working on getting and doing better, but please don’t forget how far you’ve come… Continue reading “ENCOURAGE YOURSELF!”